Why can a man date you for years, abandon you, and meet someone for a few months before marrying her?
Simple: For guys, they want to commit to and have fun with women.
The problem is that every woman believes she’s wife-worthy, and it never occurs to her that she could be fuckable material in which most guys are interested in.
It becomes a tie between them since men want to date a woman with the fundamental mindset to have fun (sex) then gradually leads to marriage.
And how can a lady date you for years only to marry someone else who, let’s say, they met within months?
Women don’t marry the man they love; they marry the man who is ready. Women have a biological clock (fertility and attractiveness years) that will be up against them as they reach a certain age.
So it can happen that you will date a lady who thinks she loves you. You’ve assured her things will work out soon. (financially).
She might meet someone who can pay her bills within a few months, marriage will be arranged; and, surprisingly, your baby will leave you.
These marriages at times end up badly since they don’t know each other very well.
This is fundamental knowledge that will help you navigate any relationship: knowing what to expect and being able to deal with it. And you can either learn now or perish later!
